Remembered how some people give comments like...."This is a SPIRITUAL BLACKMAIL lor!" And it usually comes together with rejection of certain things/behaviour they are asked to do/change as a Christian.

Well......if we had the thought that we are being spiritually blackmailed, then are we rejecting it because we are being blackmailed or is it because we does not have a good reason (supported by the bible) to reject it and we just dun want to do it. So are we rejecting God when we dun wanna do it? If what we are ask to do/change is not reasonable, why can't we give a reason to justify the our decision to reject instead of just saying......THIS IS A SPIRITUAL BLACKMAIL!.